No one wants to talk about Hospice. People have no problem communicating their wishes for a funeral or the division of assets and other big decisions that come with preparing for the end of life, but no one wants to talk about Hospice.

Hospice is a set of services that we all may need someday – if not for ourselves, for our parents. While death is not an option for any of us, we do have choices about the services we use at the end of life. Hospice is undoubtedly the best option in the last months of life because it offers a whole variety of benefits, not only to those of us who are dying, but also to those we leave behind.

YOU HAVE A CHOICE! How do you find the most appropriate hospice?

Using these guidelines and questions below, research, choose a hospice and communicate your wishes to your family, friends, and physicians. This will take the burden off your loved ones in times of stress or crisis and allow them to honor your wishes. ASK FOR THE HOSPICE BY NAME!

What do others say about this hospice? Get references both from people you know and from people in the field – e.g., local hospitals, nursing homes, clinicians. Ask anyone that you have connections to if they have had experience with the hospice and what their impressions are.

How long has the hospice been in operation? If it has been around for a while, that’s an indication of stability.

Is the hospice Medicare-certified? Medicare certification is essential if the patient is a Medicare beneficiary to permit reimbursement.

Is the hospice accredited, and if required, state-licensed? Accreditation (JCAHO or CHAP) is not required and not having it doesn’t mean a hospice isn’t good, but if the hospice has it, then you know a third party has looked at the hospice’s operations and determined they come up to a reasonable standard of care.

What is the expectation about the family’s role in caregiving? See if what the hospice expects from family members is consistent with what the family is able to do.

Are there limits on treatment currently being received? Is there anything currently being done for the patient that a hospice under consideration would not be able to do?

Can the hospice meet your specific needs? Mention any concerns the family or patient have about care and ask the hospice staff how they will address those concerns.

Does the hospice offer extra services beyond those required? Some services fall in a gray area. They are not required by Medicare but may be helpful to improve the comfort of a patient. An example is radiation and/or chemotherapy for a cancer patient to reduce the size of a tumor and ameliorate pain. Some hospices are not willing to provide this option but some are.

How rapid is crisis response? If the family needs someone to come to the home at 3AM on a Saturday, where would that person come from? What is their average response time?

What are the options for inpatient care? Patients being cared for at home may need to go to an inpatient unit for management of complicated symptoms or to give their family respite. Ask if they have a facility and visit the facility to ensure that you are comfortable with what they offer.

If the family caregiver gets really exhausted can we get respite care? Caring for someone with a serious illness can be exhausting and, at times, challenging. In addition to home hospice care and inpatient care when symptoms prove unmanageable at home, hospices also offer “respite” care (periodic breaks for the caregiver of up to 5 days during which the patient is moved to an inpatient bed) and “continuous” nursing care at home for brief periods at the patient’s home when family caregivers are unable to manage on their own. Ask the hospice under what conditions the hospice provides these types of care.

Are their MDs/RNs certified in palliative care? Not having it doesn’t mean the staff is not competent as experience counts for a lot but having this credential is an indication of specialized study in palliative medicine/nursing.

How are patient/family concerns handled? Is there a clear process for sharing concerns with appropriate hospice staff and making sure they are addressed, including a process for escalation if the concern is not adequately addressed at lower levels?

How does the hospice measure and track quality? You are not looking for a lot of technical detail, just a response that indicates that the hospice evaluates its own performance in order to improve it.

What are your general impressions at initial contact? What is your reaction to the people you talk to?

What kind of bereavement services does the hospice offer? Types of grief support can vary widely and may include individual counseling, support groups, educational materials and outreach letters.

Tidelands Community Hospice has been serving Horry, Georgetown, and Williamsburg counties for over 30 years! Tidelands has the first and only Hospice House (inpatient facility) serving these three counties. Our Hospice House provides amazing options to our patients and their families. We offer end of life care, respite care, pain management and GIP in our facility. Patients have this as an option along with hospice home care. We are truly local, started from grass roots efforts from local churches. Tidelands has over 200 volunteers to help serve families and patients. We also have a Palliative Care program that is a wonderful asset for a Hospice. Please feel free to call (843) 546-3410 for more information, to schedule a tour of our Hospice House, or to schedule a meeting to discuss your Hospice options and don’t forget to ASK FOR TIDELANDS HOSPICE BY NAME!

Credits: www.americanhospice.org